Maqa’s message is all about how we are born of the Divine… It is who we are. He talks of how important it is for us to build a relationship with our own Guides, mentioning it's our greatest yet most underutilized tool in navigating through the twists and turns in the currents our lives. I can tell you it is the most important relationship in my life… I am grateful beyond measure. Once you dive in… You can’t un-know what you know! Who knows what I’m talkin’ about here?! I know you do!!
Also, Diana and I are super excited and having so much fun planning all the details of this spectacular spiritual retreat in sacred Sedona, AZ! As some of you may know, Maqa and I are incredibly passionate about teaching clients how to cultivate their own relationship with Spirit. I always say I am going to teach myself out of a job (readings) some day. And, you know what… I would be happy with that if it helps you all discover your true power! This is why Diana and I are THRILLED this is such an important part of our retreat! All of our relationships are built upon the relationship we have with our Self.
My heart is so grateful for the amazing group of women who are beginning to gather, contemplate and sign-up for this transformative retreat! This is, without a doubt, turning into a sacred circle of powerful, loving, bad-ass sisters… It's going to be so much fun! I’m psyched for these women to discover just how bright they can really shine, as they own their divinity! If you think you might be interested in joining us, please let me know! I would love to set up a time for us to talk! We even offer custom payment plans, designed to fit your budget! Why not check out the RETREAT AGENDA and see if you feel called?
Good day everyone,
My greatest desire fulfilled… This message finds all of you coming to the powerful realization that the most important relationship you have is the relationship with yourSelf! The God spark that is you on the other side of the veil… Spirit, Higher Self, Source, Soul, Guide, Angel, Inner Being, God Self, etc. There is no way for us to help you comprehend the inner workings of all that is you. Therefore, whatever you wish to call us truly matters not from our perspective… We only ask that you call us! We are one. We do honor your human desire to place us in boxes. After all, through the channel’s desire, I have placed my “energy” in the box known as “Maqa”. Maqa means “reciprocity” in Hopi and this is truly significant in Tina's journey. The names your Guides take on are usually relevant to your journey here and our journey, together. We strive to connect in ways that are experientially satisfying for you! We are most grateful to experience the joy and pleasure you receive from the divine melding that is “Us.” If our having a name helps you feel more connected to your true nature… So it is.
Keep in mind, Spirit is not someone or something outside of you. We are the larger essence of you which sits on the other side of the veil. We are the force that breathes you and are ever present. As part of your very being, we know everything there is to know about you. We know your truth, even when you try and hide it from your selves. We know the moment you are out of alignment with your own integrity and your divine nature. We let you know by speaking through your body and your senses… Are you listening? We ask that you pay particular attention to your feelings and emotions. This is one way we have of communicating with you. Your feelings are your internal GPS. It’s important for you to follow them past the logic of what your mind wants you to think about the way you feel. Spirit speaks through everything... We have many tricks up our hypothetical sleeves!
Forging this relationship is essential in your awakening process, as it not only positively impacts your human experience but our ascension as well! Did you know as you awaken, evolve and ascend, we “rise” right along with you? Again, we are truly one and are, therefore, inextricably allied on this journey home to your Self.
Many are conditioned to believe you travel this road alone. This is simply not true… You have full access to an entourage of beings, your own Spiritual Support Team, ready to assist you in every given moment! You also have what’s known as free will. You can choose to go it alone and we too must honor this choice. You are so free in your ability to choose, you can choose bondage. Your partnership with who you really are is truly your greatest untapped resource. We are always here to help… All you must do is ask! So few actually take us up on this offer, we often wonder if you’re trying to put us out of business?! ;-)
Your Spiritual Support Teams are your visionary partners who have a 360° view of where you are and where you desire to be. We know the shortest path to your desires and can inspire you to courageously move towards them. As the source of your power, we can help you own your true worth. Spirit will guide you into alignment with that truth which creates miracles and dreams come true. We teach you how to love by example… In turn you feel inspired to love yourself and others more deeply. We hold the space of no limitations and your heart’s desire. Are you ready for this partnership? It comes with great responsibility and great reward.
If you were to ask me the number one way you could forge the path of our cherished relationship, I would say… Ask us for help every day. How often do you actually ask Spirit for help? Some of you ask more than others. There are some who wait until the situation has reached preposterous proportions. There's no need to go it alone. Ours is a co-creative relationship. Perhaps it will help if I spark your imagination… Ask Spirit to:
The list goes on and on… Ask us anything! Just know that, if you ask a funny question, you may get a funny answer! We have a great sense of humor! (the channel doesn’t always find me so humorous. ;) )
Trust in knowing the moment you ask, help has arrived. This is so even if you don’t see the physical evidence of it as yet. Don’t forget to close this loop by looking for evidence of our arrival on scene! We speak through everything…Be on the look-out. As you see evidence, may we suggest the best prayer we know of... Thank you, more please! It is the gratitude and the request! You are divinely supported.
YOU are the part of our consciousness incarnate, doing the work. We are always here, as promised, available to partner and assist. Many revere Spirit, in a way which places us in higher esteem than you place yourselves. As grateful as we are for your love and respect, our greatest wish is for you to turn some of this reverence inward. We are one…You are every bit as worthy. In every moment, we give thanks and praise to you for your service. We are grateful for the sacred honor of serving you from this side of the veil.
You are in the midst of some very exciting but also challenging times. Remember, what you focus your attention on expands. Focus some of your attention on your relationship with your Inner Being and discover the passion and joy that comes from co-creating your lives with the power that is You! This is your divine birthright…All for the price of asking. You are so dearly loved.
Giving love from the heart,
I am so freaking excited to announce that I have co-created a retreat with my soul sister and colleague, Tina Provenzano called Rock All Your Relationships in Sedona, AZ October 24th-28th. Check out our retreat website! Tina and I are inviting 15 women who are ready to love and be loved fiercely, fearlessly and freely in all their relationships. This is a transformative spiritual retreat that will open your eyes, expand your heart and leave your soul soaring while you soak up the sacred energies of the Red Rocks! If you know a woman who might be interested in this incredible opportunity, please share this with them.
During this retreat, you will receive guided meditations, individual sessions, massages, downtime, healthy delicious meals, cozy accommodations and more...much more. While this retreat is focused on creating and/or strengthening all your relationships, I believe the most important aspect of it is the gathering of women and creating a sacred sisters circle. Those of you who know me, know that I am a passionate relationship coach who enjoys bringing groups together to heal, learn, grow and have lots of laughs and fun.
However, I will be honest with you…I was a little bit disappointed when spirit told me this would be a retreat for only women. I already gather and teach women through my Being Open to Love coaching program and have led weekend women retreats in the past. I was hoping that this time I would lead a co-ed retreat because…well, why not. So, I did what I normally do, I gave myself the opportunity to process my feelings and be with spirit’s guidance.
The truth is spiritual teachers, coaches and healers are always teaching what they most need to learn. I have worked through a lot of my sisterhood wound, learned to be in my badass feminine and taught other women to do the same. Now, I am going to take it to the next phase. I will be teaching at an emotionally deeper level, sharing new tools, celebrating the divine feminine and leading this retreat with another talented, beautiful and badass woman.
Why? Because that dang old sisterhood wound still runs rampant in our world, in our communities, in our families, within our friendships and most importantly within YOU. The sisterhood wound is that longing to be seen, liked and appreciated by other women. It comes from a deep place within us that feels less than or not good enough and straight up just feeling disempowered as a woman. The sisterhood wound exists because we were hurt by another woman whether she was our mother, sister, aunt, teacher, colleague or friend. And within this hurt is a belief that creates competition, comparison, jealousy and at its extreme… displays itself as hurtful reactions.
I have been there. I have a boatload of experiences to share of feeling left out of the “clique or inner circle” of women whom I believed at the time were better than me or who deserved to belong and I didn’t. It created a spell within me that kept me behaving in such a way that kept me OUT of the circle. Not because someone was telling me to stay out because they didn’t like me or that I wasn’t worthy. I was keeping myself out of the sister circle for fear of getting hurt, rejected and abandoned.
How can you tell if you are experiencing life through a sisterhood wound? Maybe you can relate to one or many of these:
Tina and I have both experienced and witnessed how being a part of a sacred sister circle is incredibly healing to our past wounds that have impacted our relationships with others and ourselves. We have experienced and seen how being part of a like-minded group of women and bravely trusting our vulnerability to be seen, helps us to see ourselves not only through our own eyes but through the eyes of another like us. The circle returns home to you. Being in a sacred circle of women helps you to love yourself more. Loving yourself more deepens your relationships to others.
Deep authentic bonds with women have created some of my most profound spiritual experiences because it has created trust and more compassion within myself that has spilled out into the world and into my relationships with other women. There was once a time when the divine feminine was honored not just by men but by WOMEN!!! Dearest sister it is up to us… to you. We are the ones to break the spell that keeps us disconnected from our sisters, our feminine, our womanhood and from ourselves. It's time…OUR TIME…to destroy the old paradigm and birth a new one together of healing, growth, connection, support and celebration. Sisterhood is a practice and a journey... and it's one that the world needs right now. If we are to BE in our Feminine Power, we must BE ourselves and open our hearts to each other!
Among the many things offered during the Rock All Your Relationships Retreat, we will:
If you feel the call to heal your sisterhood wound and create a deeper connection to other women and most importantly to the woman that exists within YOU, then I Invite you to participate in this retreat.
It’s never too late to create the relationships of your dreams!
I am incredibly excited to tell you about the amazing retreat I’m creating with my Soul Sister and colleague, Diana Nieves called Rock All Your Relationships in Sedona, AZ and share our retreat website! This retreat is so near and dear to not only my heart, but also my path. Maqa, my Guide, revealed to me many years ago I would be doing a retreat on relationships. At the time, my reaction was… Are you kidding me? You want me to lead a retreat on relationships?! Not exactly an enthusiastic YES but it was, honestly, how I felt at the time. Well it called my name for quite some time, while I got ready to be ready. I bet you can relate to feeling called toward something important to you or your path. You also may relate to the fact I hit the snooze/ignore button one or two (or ten) times. If you don’t already know, (I’m betting you do) you can only hit snooze on a call from your Soul for so long. The Soul is a very persistent part of our Being!
The moment I decided to say YES (actually, I just didn’t say no), I got hit with this incredible wave of excitement! I quickly became overjoyed by all of the possibilities, connections, ideas and serendipities that came flooding in! When we align, “pushing” on doors isn’t really necessary – just a tap will cause them to fly open and then you can take the next step in front of you. That bliss of alignment lasted for, oh, I’d say 5 days or so? (Read: minutes) I was flying high but my excitement turned to resistance and FEAR in what seemed like a New York minute! That was SO MUCH FUN… Not! You’ve gotta love the part of us that tries to sabotage our own dreams! No, seriously…We’ve gotta love it because that’s truly what it’s calling us towards.
For those of you who know me, you know the FEAR was not around leading retreats. I’ve led many successful groups and wonderful, life changing retreats…This is absolutely one of my passions and I’m always transformed by the experience! There’s nothing that inspires me more than bringing groups of women together for connecting with Spirit, sharing, laughing, learning, relaxing and forming sacred sisterhood bonds that restore our faith, passion and vitality at a Soul level. I can feel it… This retreat is going to be life changing - Maqa isn’t messin’ around! J
My FEAR was actually old and it was back, with a twist! :-\ Who the hell am I to claim I can lead/teach a group of women how to improve or, even better yet, ROCK all their Relationships?! And, this FEAR came on pretty strong!! Because we always attract what we most need to heal, I was met with some interesting questions from some of my greatest mirrors (friends and colleagues.) I heard “Why don’t you just do a nice easy, relaxing retreat with hiking, massages and some spiritual stuff?” Someone else asked (rightfully so) “What makes you an expert on this topic and what would make me want to attend your retreat over another?” So, giving into my FEARS, I said: Hey Maqa… That’s a really great question! Why don’t we just do a nice easy/breezy retreat in the Red Rocks with hiking, massages and some fun spiritual stuff? Maqa said… Because your path is to teach what you most need to learn and this is part of your purpose. Many of you have experienced Maqa and as funny (sometimes J) and supportive (always) as he is, in true Spirit fashion, he always nudges (Read: pushes) me/us into opportunities for greater love, growth and empowerment. It took a lot of love and encouragement to move myself into my resistance so I could actually see that, the thing behind the thing – behind the thing was me being afraid to put all my old dysfunctional relationship patterns and stories out there in, what feels like, a much bigger and scarier way. I’ve healed many layers of self judgment and it looks as though I’m moving through another. This is about me feeling safe enough to publically, be emotionally intimate.
The other thing that “popped up” was I really don’t care for the term “expert”, especially when it comes to relationships. (More judgement – lol) In my opinion, the term “expert” is thrown around far too often and there are way too many out there who are self proclaimed. So, up front, I don’t claim to be one. This was yet another piece… The thought that I had to be something I didn’t resonate with in order to run this retreat brought up a boatload of resistance. I realized, what I am is experienced! Chances are really good that I’ve been in my own version of where you are right now - more times than my Ego cares to recall or blog about, actually! Honestly, I’m pretty sure I have run just about every self-sabotaging play on the relationship field! And, what is also true is Diana can also relate! We can help you find your way out of the pile after a fumble and help you discover a new way to BE in the game of LOVE moving forward. So, let me run you through a few of those foul plays and you let me know if you can relate:
You’re an independent and capable woman who is smart and, to the outside world, also looks strong. You can take care of yourself and you’re not afraid to do the work. You’ve changed several of your pesky patterns and reaped some or maybe even many returns on your investment. Life is good but you also feel the desire or perhaps the call to be in a loving, healthy and happy relationship. But, what happens when a potential partner enters the picture? Why and how do we lose ourselves? And, how does it happen so quickly and easily?
Although I bet you’ve told yourself that you’re just going to forget about dating and relationships, you know, deep down, giving up is NOT an option. Your heart and Soul will continue to call you toward the relationship it longs for. This Soul call is about being in a harmonious relationship with yourSelf. From this space, you will feel strong enough to be your vulnerable self while standing in Divine union with a partner. My entire life has been (and continues to be) the fodder for understanding we all have access to that “expert” we are seeking… Right inside of us. This is the place we will find our sense of safety, sanity and security! It will, therefore, be my greatest pleasure to teach you to open to your own intuitive gifts so you can receive guidance from your own inner expert… Spirit!
We questioned our decision for this retreat to address “all” of your relationships. But, we soon realized the only variance between our relationships is in our mind. And even though this retreat will absolutely improve all of your relationships, I believe I will personally attract amazing women who are looking to bring in or be in the thriving partner relationship they desire. So, if you read any of the scenarios above thinking, “this is me” and you’re ready to get down to business and change your patterns (Read: outcomes) then this is a phenomenal opportunity that you don’t want to pass up! Get ready to laugh, cry, connect, relate and have some really BIG life changing Aha’s! You don’t have to do it alone!
One of the things Diana and I have both learned about changing stubborn patterns is, it can take a lot of desire, determination and it can also take a village! We both, from the beginning, whole-heartedly knew it would be powerful for you to spend a few hours of each day with us in group and another portion of your day diving deep, one-on-one with a personalized team of amazing practitioners. Upon registering, you will have a one-on-one discussion with me where Maqa will match you with the best sessions and practitioners; completely customizing your transformational retreat experience. We’ve initially brought on board some of the practitioners who’ve had a tremendous affect on my own healing journey. They are each very special to me and are still my go to healers and sounding boards. I love and respect each of them and I know you will too. What they all have in common is they walk their talk and they’ve all been in the trenches. They are all exceptionally intuitive, gifted and practiced in their craft. They are also very much in service and really excited about being an integral part of this event. I look forward to introducing them to you as we go forward. There will also be plenty of time dedicated to having fun, relaxing and re-charging amongst Sedona’s sacred red rocks! Evenings are sure to be a blast… Or, more accurately designed to help you blast off! Now, and especially with this amazing team we’ve assembled, I feel completely ready to help you ROCK ALL YOUR RELATIONSHIPS!
Before you go… I do have a quick question (or 3) for you. What is your Soul calling you towards? Are you hitting the snooze button on your dreams because you don’t know what steps to take to change your patterns or release your fears? Are you ready to open to your heart and all it desires? Take it from me… Chances are it’s going to scare the crap out of you! Anything this important usually does. This is why we hit snooze and make excuses! It’s ok… It will keep coming back around because, YOU’VE GOT THIS! Your Soul does not deliver a dream you can’t achieve! The FEAR is in your mind… It’s not real. I know because I’m someone who’s been there. I have and will continue to journey through the FEAR of being in relationship for two main reasons…. The pure joy of creating a life I desire and love and for the honor of helping others do the same.
If you are feeling called to attract in or improve upon the quality of your relationships, join us in Sedona, AZ from October 24-28, 2017! Go for your dreams… Whatever they are!! If you are a man who has a lot of love for a woman who you think might benefit from joining us, please share it with them!
BONUS: We are also running a great early bird special! I can promise you… You will go home feeling transformed.